Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Near Life

Recently our pastor spoke about near death experiences and how often we have such experiences- more often than not- and we just don't know it. And if we have ever had one that has remained etched in our memory, we're probably still talking about it.

But what about the near life experiences? How often and how close to that are we everyday? How often are we too afraid or too careful or too intimidated that we won't allow ourselves to live life to its absolute fullest?



And as a Mother, I have this huge responsibility to direct not only how I live, but just which way each of my children will live- or not "live."

To keep them safe and far away from the edge, from the unknown, and thus maybe missing miracles and blessings and life-shaping experiences. Or instead taking that very thing that is holding us back,
that thing we just can't seem to "get over" and using it as a launch pad, a push from the nest into that place that really may not be so dark and scary after all. It might just be life. A life very much worth living.

41 comments:

isunshine said...

Ahh...near death experiences. I know about those. Near life experiences are what I need to start having. I find myself dwelling on the stresses of life, rather than getting over them, eliminating them, or dealing with them. I keep saying "tomorrow" or "next week" or "next year". I need to just say "yes" and get on with it already. Thanks!

Kelli said...

Thanks for this post. Each day we have is a gift and an opportunity to make this day better than the last. Sometimes we need to be reminded of that.

I love the pictures too!

Peanut Butter and Jelly Boats said...

Hmmm, I've never considered near life experiences. Good Stuff Steph.

Rachel said...

Awesome reminder to just enjoy life. We are going to the beach today and I can't wait to see what they create in the sand, water...

Ruhiyyih Rose said...

Great post - and great photos! I have never thought about "Near Life Experiences" before. I think going to Africa next month will do that for me...I have wanted to go forever, and just decided to take the plunge and GO. Great issue here, lots to think about!

Erin said...

Yet again, this is another beautiful post. I plan to live my life to the fullest, and not let (pms) get in the way! He he!

Kathryn said...

So much of everyday life can be near life experiences. You just have to catch the moments.

Great post!

Madeline said...

You have such a beautiful way of putting things. This post is such a lovely reminder that life should be counted by all the moments we wish could last forever. When you start thinking like that you really see how blessed you are even in the midst of turmoil.

Guinevere Meadow said...

I love this, Steph! Too often we forget that it's the small moments which make the biggest memories.

pinkmommy said...

What an awesome perspective.

Lisa~Crazy Adventures in Parenting said...

this post is amazing. Thank you for the excellent reminder!

Hyperactivelu said...

the pictures were great... and i've never thought about near life experiences... good thinking stuff!

Beck said...

After I came so close to dying, I felt a sense of panicked gratitude for AGES afterwards. Honestly, I'm very glad to be back to being able to take things mostly for granted now.

my wonderful men... said...

Steph,
Great post to focus on life.
Amy

Becoming Me said...

Very beautiful and poignant post!

Polly said...

Awesome post. Love it!!

Cyndi said...

I have that feeling about near death experiences. I wonder how many we have had and did not even realize. I have never thought of it the other way around, of near life experiences.

the mama bird diaries said...

Very beautiful reminder of what life is all about.

dcrmom said...

Yes, I totally agree. It's hard to overcome, when you've been through a really big trauma, but it's a shame to waste the time we have.

Mimi's Toes said...

Great post. I had never thought of it in that way before, Near Life. I enjoyed looking at your pastor's site.

Bloggy Mama said...

Near life... I like it!

Miche said...

What a great way to think about each day we have! We have pictures of Ben up on my blog now, too!

Damselfly said...

I love it! Thanks for sharing the thought.

Dawn@Embracing the Ordinary Life said...

A quote I've heard lately is "This too shall pass" and most people find comfort in this when bad things are happeing, but sadness thinking about the good things...I believe it simply means to enjoy every single moment you are in...do not feel sad...embrace the moment...for it too shall pass...

Katie, Kevin and kids said...

What a great reminder! Thank you!

Cheryl Lage said...

Poifect post! And a great reminder. :) Those pictures provide a perfect complement to your word-wisdom as well.

Nicely done, thank you!

Steph said...

Great one Steph! I try hard to not let my nervousness about "what could happen" limit the kids experiences.

Tonya said...

I totally needed to read that today. Thanks!

Vintage Dutch Girl said...

I must admit I am often too scared or afraid to live life to the fullest...or just too plain tired and lazy!

Haley said...

Another poetic post! And you are so right...we need to savor every moment of our children living life, it goes by awfully fast!

Summer said...

Beautiful post! I worry sometimes that in keeping my kids safe they are missing out on some of the more exciting parts of life. Good food for thought!

Elaine A. said...

Thanks Steph, I needed to read this today. Here's to all the "near life" experiences we can get! : )

Barbie@ Mamaology said...

Great thoughts to ponder:).

Not Just Any Jen said...

Thanks for pointing it all this out today. Those picture are perfect!

Kari said...

Well said! I really enjoyed your post today. It was a great reminder.

Arianne said...

Loved this. That pic of Gray is priceless. I want to notice the near-life or LIFE experiences a lot more...

Erin D said...

I clicked on your pastor's link, and I just had to let you know that we went to Countryside when I was a little girl! Coincidentally I happen to be writing this from a hotel room in Michigan City. :)

Carrington said...

Great post Steph!

jane - pinks & blues said...

Such a wonderful post, as always, and the pictures go perfectly with it.

xo,
Jane

kristi said...

you gave me something to think on this morning. we need more near life experiences!

The Little Window Shoppe said...

I love this. What a great way to think about daily life and its potential.